Seven Tet holidays, I didn’t come home because my parents urged me to get married

Avatar of Nick John By Nick John Dec22,2023 #holidays #Seven
Seven Tet holidays, I didn't come home because my parents urged me to get married 15
Seven Tet holidays, I didn't come home because my parents urged me to get married 15

Regarding the story `Psychological crisis due to being urged to get married`, many VnExpress readers expressed their sympathy when experiencing similar situations:

I’m 30 years old, and my parents urged me to get married `like pounding rice`.

It’s really tiring when every time I come home I hear the same refrain: When will I get married?

I am the same, male, 30 years old, but for the past seven Tet, I have used the excuse of being busy with work to not go home because every time I come home, all my relatives and neighbors ask about getting married.

I am 35 years old, unmarried and for decades I have endured all the scolding, admonishing, teasing, and doubts of my parents, relatives, colleagues, friends… I am sad, cry, and feel sorry for myself.

>> ‘Don’t quit your high-paying job to return home to get married’

Talking about the concept of `getting married to give parents peace of mind`, many objections say:

Does getting married really liberate parents?

I teach my children and give them good knowledge and independent thinking.

Now I am very happy and fulfilled, but I still tell my children that `it doesn’t matter whether you get married or not, we will never force or urge you. When will you find yourself taking care of yourself?`

Many people have vague dreams and get married because of the wishes of their family and society while they themselves are not ready enough financially and in terms of time.

Getting married is voluntary, a right and an optional choice for every woman.

Everyone has their own thoughts.

I’m still trying my best so that when I get old, I can settle down, go to a good nursing home, and hire good nurses to take care of myself.

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